What to do if your wife runs off with your kids?

The first thing you do and most important is do not take it too seriously, which is not easy, because I became a 'basket case' so when your love! Your family leaves you; it is a feeling you never had before. This is one's biggest mistake. This was my mistake she got to me, and her control got to me, so, I lost my children. Having never been divorced before I had no idea what to do. I am sure most of you do not know what to do. This is the problem with divorce it is like a death.

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She had planted all kinds of evil thoughts into her close friends to get them to help her out and to hide from me. But you know this was really to my advantage, but I did not do anything right. She had me. I was lost. I did not know what to do. What happened? My friend had to take care of me for two weeks. I could not function. The emotional impact on your life is the greatest danger to you. Please remember this, you see, your wife had all ready decided to runaway she doesn't have this emotional impact on her she is free to build a new life. She has made you into a victim with her deception, lies, and unwillingness to agree with you. So remember, your emotional state can make you weak, defenseless and hopeless. Please try to correct this if this is you.

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This kind of behavior is the worse. The first thing you have to do is be thankful She is gone and you can concentrate on getting custody of the kids. This is something I did not do either. I concentrated on getting back together, for how could she do this to me and the kids? For her it was easy, she did it and played me for a sucker. A real big sucker and I fell into the trap. I even helped her suck me in which is the worse thing I could have done.

Well, let me tell you, if she left the family home she is at fault. The first thing you should do is go to family court and file a divorce hearing with custody issues with the children. You see the spouse who leaves the family home is the guilty party. But because I went to another state I became the guilty party. Because she filed for divorce I became the defendant. Don't let them put you on the defensive. This is their plan and a way of getting on top of the situation. Now if they can emotionally make you a 'basket case'. I do not know what to say. Do not let them get to you where you loose control of your life. Do not give them that much respect. If she took your children why should you respect her. No reason, you are making an ass of yourself.

Remember, your wife is not your Mother, but she is a control freak, especially if she leaves the family home. She wants what she wants no matter what. So remember this! Your love has turned into a war and the lawyers and the courts exploit this and you become the victim along with your children and your so called spouse. My mistake was thinking that a woman is like one's Mother. They really love you. But do not think they do they love what they want and only what they want. Put this into your head and you will think much clearer. They will even have sex with you to exploit this idea and use it against you in court that you forced yourself on her. My so called loving spouse did.

Remember, you do not need a lawyer to go to court. You can file the papers yourself. Maybe you could go to a family counseling service to get advice. Lawyers only want to make money not help you. They are not your friend, but sometimes it gets so emotional you need them. But try to get through this without losing your job or lots of money. This is what happened to me and I ended up with 50 dollars, no job and no place to live.

The best thing to do is do nothing. She will contact you because she wants your money! They only want what they want and they do not give a damn about you! Remember this they only speak lies.

If you can remember that everything that comes out of their mouth is a lie of one kind or another you will be better off. Do nothing, go to court, stay quiet, you will get the kids back, do not fall into their evil trap like I did. As long as you file the case first and serve her with papers you got it. Now when she comes around looking for money this is your chance to serve her with the divorce papers. Do not be a fool and let her get the upper hand. Baby, this is war and remember it. Anyone who runs off with the kids and leaves a note and doesn't want to deal with you is not a nice person. So do not think about your love and all those loving moments. It is over and you must be cool, do nothing, let the courts give you your children.

She will make all kinds of abuse accusations against you. Try to figure out what they are and have a plan to attack her behavior and lies. Women are very good at this and will get their friends to support them and including male friends. They are really bitches and even my own daughters have done this women thing against me. But I was able to handle it and came out on top. Remember, men, women think differently than you do. Get with the program and remember they are not your friend, lover, or person of good will. They just want what they can out of you. Please remember this. I do not mean you cannot come to some kind of agreement, but remember they will fight you hard with lies and all the tools that they have.

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Write me at gwatersusa@gmail.com read the cards, http://www.spaceagetarot.infoThese cards have behavior pattern that can help you learn to deal with the weaknesses of humankind. Good luck with your new life! Give yourself time to heal and get your life back together. Remember, you can never really trust your wife again. Get on the program and take your life back. It takes a moment to break up a family and years to come to terms with it.

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